Trust takes years to build, seconds to break, and forever to repair. Regaining trust in your husband is difficult but possible, and unfortunately, it does require bringing up the past. Avoidance will not make you forget.

I’m not so sure if it’s the cheating that bothers me so much as the length of time he cheated on me, and how the heck did I not see it for that many years?

I’ve been married for 22 years, and my husband and I have three teenagers together. My issue is, I caught my husband cheating three years ago and found out that his affair had lasted six years. He claimed that he wasn’t getting his needs met at home.