Ellen DeGeneres and Portia de Rossi are telling everyone what’s actually happening behind the scenes, and it shuts down all the misconceptions that have been reported. On Dec 1, DeGeneres shared a rare selfie featuring her and Rossi in the countryside.

Ellen DeGeneres is showing love to her wife, Portia de Rossi, while celebrating their 20th anniversary. In an Instagram post Sunday, the former talk show host gave thanks to de Rossi for being the “best thing that ever happened” to her amid the pair’s recent move to rural England.

The comedian and her actor wife have relocated to the Cotswolds and will put their Montecito, Calif., home on the market, according to reports.